How to Keep A Library Of (Physical) Books
The hardest part of my most recent move: figuring how to transport nearly 1,500 books. All the rest of our stuff–in the age of IKEA–turned out to be easier to sell on Craigslist or throw away than to move. But the books? Something had to be done.
They are my life and my livelihood.
Ultimately, I ended up hiring 1-800-Pack-Rat to send a portable storage unit to my house– a pod 8 feet by 8 feet by 8 feet– which I filled up and then shipped off to the new house. Nearly 30 full boxes of books were loaded in (plenty of space left if I’d had more). I used movers on TaskRabbit and didn’t have to pick up a single one. The books arrived right outside my door about ten days later. It was amazing. I wish I’d thought of it before.
See, I’ve been keeping a library for as long as I can remember. My enthusiasm has been sporadic of course. (There was a boneheaded moment in college where I sold a bunch of books back because they were giving away Skittles to the people who did it.) But I read a lot and strive to keep, return to and reference what I’ve read whenever I can.
That isn’t to say it’s been easy. I’ve moved a lot over the years and every move makes you question why you keep something that weighs thousands of pounds and takes up many cubic feet. Just two years ago, when I moved to New Orleans, my library was much smaller. Still, I had to rent a small U-Haul trailer just for my books and drive it across the country. And because I had a smaller place, most of the books had to stay in boxes and couldn’t be arranged properly. It was miserable.
Today, finally, after years of waiting, I have them all in one place. I could not be be happier. I’m already reaping the benefits in my writing and my work.
Below are some tips on keeping and maintaining your own library. I hope they help:
-First, you have to read a lot. A lot. Read when you fly, read when you wait for doctors appointments, read when you’re eating, read before bed, take breaks from work and read. Every chance you get, read. If you need recommendations, I’m your man (more on this below)
-Buy, buy buy. I took some heat for criticizing checking books out from the library a while back. Books are an investment. I understand they cost money upfront…but that’s how an investment works. I think I spent something like $4,000 on books in 2012. 75% of that was on Amazon, the rest was B&N in store or various indies. You gotta spend money to make money.
-Oh, that sounds like a lot? Average student loan debt for the same period was about $30k. If you don’t like that equivalency, what’d you spend on cable, movies and bar tabs? What are the chances of that ever turning a profit? The books have more than paid for themselves (if only in improving my life and outlook and providing pure enjoyment, to say nothing of their ideas, inspiration and lessons).
-I’ll be real clear about the benefits of owning physical books: You own them. They are there, physically, in your house. You cannot forget about them. A different app is not one click away. You can see patterns. You can gauge your progress. You can show off your efforts (and you should–reading is something to be proud of). You can look for what you need, find it on the shelf and satisfyingly say “Ah, here it is” and find the exact passage you marked for this purpose.
-In my eyes, there is no question that I am able to write as much as I do and have been able to accomplish as much as I have been fortunate to accomplish because of the library I have built. When I do my taxes each year and look at what I’ve earned vs what I’ve spent on books, I see the correlation and think “Sounds about right” and then I push to up it in the following year.
-In other words, RESIST THE KINDLE. I’ve purchased a fair amount of Kindle books. Do you know how many times I have “flipped” through those books after I read them? Or looked at the notes I took? Never. I don’t even remember which ones I bought. If there were no other reason to prefer physical to digital, this is it.
-Same goes for audiobooks. They are even less justifiable in this sense. Yes they might be easier to listen to in the car, but that convenience comes at a high cost when you are trying to remember ‘where you heard that good idea a couple months ago.’
-The books on your shelves–if properly selected–represent literally thousands of years of cumulative human wisdom. This is wisdom that you can reach out and access at any second. It also stands there, also, as a reminder of the pettiness of so many of our problems and complaints.
-Organize, organize, organize. I do themes (moving messed them all up, but it was fun to start over).
-Some themes of mine: Classics. Fiction. Autobiography. Power/Strategy. Business. Cities I’ve Lived In. Civil War. War. Media/Marketing. Non-Fiction. Hollywood. Big Books That Don’t Fit in Normal Shelves. Etc.
-Have a “LIFE” section–for books that changed your life or books to live your life by. Return to these often.
-Aesthetically, once in themes I prefer to have them arranged in order descending by height. I tried color once but it didn’t work. The height gives it a sense or order and symmetry which you notice only when it is not there.
-Nassim-Taleb talks about an “anti-library.” That is, not just books you’ve read–which represent you know–but all the books you haven’t read. Knowing what you don’t know is just as important. The books you haven’t read are humble reminder.
-At the same time, I find that if books pile up, I don’t read as fast (or I forget them). So I keep multiple Amazon Wish Lists where I track books I intend to read. Every week or so I’ll buy a couple to keep my ahead of schedule.
-Pick one off the shelf every now and then and flip back through it.
-I don’t tend to care if they are brand new, used, paperback or hardcover. I usually try to get whatever the best deal is, or if I’m in a hurry, whatever will arrive first.
-Having a personal library in your house functions as a good litmus test for people who come over. If their first question is “WOW, have you read all these?” it says something about them. If they immediately start looking for books they like, or start inspecting the titles like it’s a bookstore and they’re looking for something to pick up, that says something too. You can tell a lot about a person based on their relationship to reading.
-But it takes up so much space! Just wall space, really. We fill up our living spaces with so much crap, I have to think books are maybe the least bad thing. If it wasn’t there, a couch would probably take its place.
-I understand that keeping a library of books puts you minority or at least part of a dying breed (like someone who started a record collection in 1998). Whatever. Of all the “old” traditions to stick to, a three- or four-thousand-year-old one strictly observed by basically every smart and accomplished person ever seems like a good one to go down with.
-Treat them like shit. Books are made to be broken–literally or figuratively. I recently bought a 80+ year old book for $76 (a rare book called If It Had Happened Otherwise). I took special pleasure folding the pages and writing on them. It’s mine, why treat it like a delicate flower?
-The author signed it? Cool, it’s still for reading.
-We all know that public libraries are calming and quiet. Having books displayed–or better, a room dedicated to it–brings a little of that effect into your home.
-Become a resource for others. I love recommending books. I love being able to suggest “the best” book on a certain topic. Or when you see someone you know reading something, try to think of other books you might like. Nothing builds a connection like a shared book or author.
-Refer back to them! If you’re writing a memo, see if you can’t include an anecdote from a business book. If you’re working on a blog post, cite a book you’ve read. If someone you know is going through something, try to track down that quote you vaguely remember. The more you do this, the better your recall will get.
-The point of owning the books is to use them. Make sure you take notes and keep a commonplace book. It will change your life, I promise.
-Books are no substitute for human contact, but it is still beneficial, I think, to be in the physical company of the greats. There’s no way I’m ever going to be in the same room as all the people I’ve read biographies for. Most of them are dead, for starters. But having their books close to me is a decent half measure.
-Don’t be afraid to quit books that suck. Our lives are too short to suffer through crappy books. There are too many good ones out there–put it down if you stop getting something out of it. If they really suck, sell them back to Amazon, donate to charity or throw them away.
-On that note, don’t collect for the sake of collecting. Leave that for hoarders. Get rid of the stuff you don’t like or have no real use for. When I moved I got rid of two full boxes…which I have subsequently replaced with better stuff.
-Don’t loan. If I LOVE a book enough that I want you to have it, I’ll buy it for you…or I’ll just bother you until you buy it yourself. I’m not letting you borrow my copy. (My grandfather used to put his address labels in books–I still have a few of his copies. It isn’t my style, but seeing the stickers always makes me smile)
-If you need ever a reminder to read, the constant physical presence of books near you in your own home is quite helpful.
-It’s all about the IKEA shelves. Why? Easy, cheap and you can get rid of them if you need ‘em. I prefer the Billy Bookcase but I’ve also used the Expedit in the past. Higher is better (so if they have the extenders), put the books you need the least at the top and you’ll save room.
-Collect the unusual. My favorite section of books is weird books about animals. It is two full shelves and includes a ridiculous book called The Criminal Prosecution and Capital Punishment of Animals–a fascinating read to say the least.
-If you want a cheesy library joke, refer to your books as the “[Insert Your Name] Memorial Library”
-Is it really that much of a pain to carry books around? I never got this argument. Only once in my life after like a month on the road was I so overloaded that I had to mail some home (and I read way more than the average person). Suck it up, the benefits are worth a heavy suitcase.
-Go through other people’s libraries. I have a standing arrangement with one of my friends who has a lot of books–if I see something I like (and he hasn’t marked up the copy), I take it and ship him a replacement.
-Having a library keeps the information fresh in your head. Even just catching a glance of a title as I walk through the room is a enough sometimes to bring not just the content of the book back into my mind but where I was when I read it, what I was doing, what music I was listening to at the time.
-Try to find those books you remember as a kid. It’s nice to have and every once in awhile it will make you think or smile. I guess that’s why I tell myself I bought a copy of Everybody Poops and the Stinky Cheeseman.
-Ask smart people for recommendations. Smart people read, people who read become smart. End of story. Find out what worked for other people. It’s a great conversation starter too.
-When you read a book, mark down the other books it cites either in the text or in the bibliography. My general rule is to try to find one new book from every book I read. This will pull you into some weird but unexpected directions.
-Walk into bookstores. Whether you’re in an airport, walking down the street, traveling in a foreign country–try to find bookstores and poke your head in. I always find good, unexpected stuff this way. Sometimes I buy it there, sometimes I make a note and buy it later. Even if you use Kindle or iBooks, do this. Discovery is important.
You keep a library ultimately because you love books. Because books are awesome.
But I wanted to write this to make the point that there are other benefits too–benefits that cannot be recreated on your iPad or Kindle. I don’t have a problem with eBooks but I can say seriously that there isn’t a single time that I read a good digital book that I didn’t immediately wish I had a physical copy of.
And these benefits far outweigh any costs or impositions. Though I imagine that next time I move, I’m going to need a bigger storage pod.
This post originally ran on ThoughtCatalog.com. Comments can be seen there.
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I like this a lot… I have a huge library of books, many saved from the racks at thrift stores (Robert Collier’s Letter Book).
Is there ever a situation where you would “purge” your collection to weed out books that just are/were not useful? Maybe to make room for others that are?
Great advise. First of all it is nice to see someone as young as you prefer physical books over eBooks . You also provide some inspiration for procrastinators like me to get our act together and start reading and organizing the piles of books that have accumulated over the years. Thanks.
Nice. This is some of my small but growing library at the moment – see if you can spot the influence you and Tucker had:
and having spent the last couple of years buying more on kindle than physical, I’m starting to agree with you that the latter is better. I try to highlight and keep notes on kindle, but it’s so time-consuming.
I love this post, Ryan. Mainly because it justifies my obnoxious book collection. and the fact that the first thing I do when I go to someone else’s house is judge their taste in movies and books.
When my wife and I moved into together last Summer, I promptly put the vast majority of her books on a bookshelf in our bedroom. When she asked why her elaborate collection of Nicholas Sparks books couldn’t go on the living room shelf I promptly launched into an elaborate explanation that what you read said a lot about you.
Some of our favorite dates are spent wondering the halls of Barnes and Noble, me giving her “girly” recommendations I half-heartily read on GoodReads and her pretending to care when I geek out on something from your reading list or Josh Kaufman’s personal MBA list.
As for books that suck/don’t resonate, I have a rule. 100 pages minus your age. That’s how a long a book has to retain my attention.
Thanks for writing this and for taking the time to provide your recommendations every month. Your recommendations have a special folder in my gmail. your book recommendations and Ramit’s business advice represent the only two folders devoted to individual people’s work. Speaks volumes.
100 pages minus your age is a great rule. Especially since our time gets more valuable the more of it we have used up.
Love this post for many reasons. The two most important:
1. It reminds me to read more books, which I love doing but Google has made me stupid and I read way too much online content.
2. Like you have a very strong opinion on why physical books are better, I have a very strong opinion on how smart phones and constant/instant communication screws us up. Sometimes being conservative equals to being a revolutionary.
I have justified building a digital library simply with practical reasons, but you gave an arsenal of arguments that I can completely relate to and that make me want to go back to physical books. For one thing, you’ll never sit down with a friend and have a nice cup of something and look at some books together in your digital library – so true.
One huge obstacle I’m facing right now though is I’ve been long term travelling for 5 months and will keep doing it for a good few months at least. I know you say a heavy suitcase is worth it, but I don’t think it’s an option for me. And if I settle down in South America, moving my books over from Europe isn’t a great idea either. Any suggestion for this particular case? (Other than settle the f**k down 🙂
Ship books back to yourself once you’ve finished them. If you’ve got a lot of equity built up in them, seems like it justifies the cost.
“I understand that keeping a library of books puts you minority or at least part of a dying breed (like someone who started a record collection in 1998). Whatever. Of all the “old” traditions to stick to, a three- or four-thousand-year-old one strictly observed by basically every smart and accomplished person ever seems like a good one to go down with.”
Have you messed with any of the software for cataloging books? I recently inherited a library, most of which I am going to hang on to, but when combined with my library it is total chaos
Another tip: Always have a book with you, always.
It’s amazing how much you can read throughout the day just by making it more convenient.
My dad taught me that.
Another major perk of hard books over ebooks or audio is that if you work at a computer, it’s demoralizing to have to read from a screen at the end of the day. Reading real books is probably the best sleep aid I’ve ever known.
How a propos! An hour ago I received word my entire library of 500 books (plus bookcases) is being shipped from California to Nebraska. Since I now have over a hundred books accumulated in the meantime, I’m running around trying to figure out where to put everything. It’s going to make my (nearly) furniture-less apartment much smaller, but I’ll manage it somehow. Haven’t seen my books in 8 years. It’s going to be Old Home Week, like greeting old friends.
I just can’t get into the Kindle. Lord knows I tried. I am a book lover.
Fantastic article, as always. I like the “Life section” that you have in your bookshelf. I think Neil Strauss has that too and he has many duplicates of his best books to give to people on that shelf. I have a similar section, which i call “top of my refrigerator” haha! I simply put on the top of my refrigerator my best life changing books or the ones that are relevant to what I’m trying to do or working on at the moment. The best part of this is that since I work from home, every time I grab something in the fridge, i”m reminded about those books and why i should care.
I do admit that I’m on the fence with the ebook vs real books. I made a vow never to “stay in the past” and be like those baby boomers that keep saying that “it was better back then” and instead I always want to adapt and follow new technologies (we are, by default, afraid of change). So i started reading books in kindle for ipad and i both like it and hate it. First, the app is REALLY dreadful and i can’t read it with anything else…. how do i quickly go to a specific page like on a physical book? A grand overview of all pages? complex highlighting? etc. Anyway, I prefer paper to ebooks but i think that i can still remember pretty well the content of books after i read them. But, that being said, i do have a hard time remembering some of the ones i bought, and it’s mostly the app sorting feature fault. I really hope they open that to 3rd party apps…
Thanks again for sharing. My love for books and their immense value is quickly growing! What a cheap, amazing way to learn
I’m curious, how much of your library is an anti-library?
Even if sometimes I carry up to 3 books in my handbag (pretty heavy for my 5ft 2 frame), I would never succumb to a Kindle. Thank you for providing me 50% of the books I have read in 2013. 🙂
My library is growing at a somewhat gentler pace than yours. Admittedly I don’t burn through them as quickly as you do but reading more has totally transformed my perspective on things this year. I’m shocked as to why I haven’t been doing more of it.
I have about 100 books and another 250 on my Amazon wishlist… someday I will achieve your library status.
Also loved your book (Obstacle is the Way)! I do book reviews for Jordan Harbinger at Art of Charm.
Tons of great info and I recommend it.
As a lover of physical books and having moved many times across the country, I’ve made the mistake of leaving 80% of mine behind every time. I’ve found myself on many occasions wanting to reference a book, only to realize it’s no longer on my shelf . 🙁
Due to my not seeing a huge mess unfolding in my life-I was focused on building a company which has since imploded-I have lost two personal libraries in the past ten years. It is devastating-it feels like someone came in the night and stole my mind. I had rare books, information I can never replace and tons of projects in progress. I think about them, especially my first one, all the time…and cry about it often. I am rebuilding a third now from scratch, but after losing the first two, I think I’m being more tentative now and not buying things I’m afraid to lose.
I have always kept my physical book purchases, to the tune of now owning 9-10,000 of them! Some are in storage, the rest take up most of my house and garage… and most not on shelves.
I found your article when trying to decide whether or not to try to get rid of them or find a way to live with them. They lost a lot of meaning when I lost my wife of 37 years 4 years ago.
I have been living in three places simultaneously (not easy), stretching across three continents. I am trying to reduce my geographical spread back to a single home, but my book collection is a major headache. I don’t want to get rid of books that I loved reading and may want to consult, or even re-read. Your blog is most comforting in a world where the average person, on walking into my living space, asks me if I am planning to open a bookshop. The academics I know have masses of books in their large studies, so don’t need so much space for books at home — though a lot of them do have equally large home libraries. I now have a huge collection of Kindle books. I don’t see these replacing physical books. I also don’t subscribe to the “either/or” fallacy. There are plenty of places, for example on an airliner, where reading on an electronic device is much more convenient. But if I’m sitting on my deck looking out over the Catskill Mountains, I prefer to enjoy a real, hardback, book in my hands.