Some unexpected expense comes your way. Like you get hit with a fine or have to replace something that breaks.
You can see this as an unmitigated loss. Or you can try a little trick.
What was the last thing you got for free? Someone picked up the tab at dinner? Or that work bonus that was bigger than anticipated?
Ok, don’t think about it like that. Instead, you paid for half the dinner–and then you got half off reduction on that parking ticket. Or just see your bonus as actually having been X% smaller. Whatever ratio you have to jigger to get it to work.
Keep your gains in limbo and then shave a little off when life inevitably swings the other direction. It’s so simple. Yet saves so much anguish.
It’s called framing. Make it work for you.
Stop seeing simply the things that go wrong. Don’t keep an account of misfortune. Run the balance the other way: what were the things that you skated on, that you got away with, that got comped? Now when something goes wrong, count it against that–if you have to count it at all.
Because when you really look at it this way you’ll realize that you’re still ahead of where you started. And you’re prepared to account for the bad shit that will inevitably come your way as well.